Thursday, June 19, 2008

Starting to freak out....

I feel like noone is coming. We have gotten several R.S.V.P.s back from people that we felt sure wouldn't want to miss our wedding, and they are not coming. I have to blog about this, because I can't bug John about it anymore, and my Mother thinks I'm worrying too much. Um.. HELL-FREAKING-O I am the bride, and noone is coming to my wedding. We invited over 300 people and we will be hearing crickets with only 20 people showing up! It's my nightmare. We didn't invite people for gifts or any other reason. We want to have a party. It's been 6 years, two kids, a hellacious road at times, and we finally are happy and content. I just thought people would want to see that to fruition.

I'm stressed...and sad...

2 comments:

Erica said...

I think that is everyone's fear.. whether it be a wedding, shower or party.. there will be plenty of people there, I promise and if our RSVP hasn't been sent in it is because I haven't been home to see it.. Daniel doesn't do mail.. but we will be there! Try to relax and enjoy the excitement of the whole wedding weekend.. it becomes a blur.. and I don't mean from the alcohol!

The Harms said...

Thank you so much for reading... I really didn't think I would ever be irrational, but I have my moments. My Matron of Honor is probably not going to be flying in, because she's going to be 30+ weeks prego, and would never expect her to, but it makes me sad just the same. We've known eachother since we were 9. Some of my side of the family has been crappy about coming for this and that reason, and then my bachelorette party got canceled. I sound so whiny, really. It's just that it all happened in the span of one week, so I freaked a little lol. Really though, thanks for the advice. I sure need all the advice to remain sane anyone can spare right now ;-P And, we are all getting together in my room at the hotel the night before for some wine and R&R, so bring yourself over. You guys need to also come to the rehearsal dinner (you don't have to come to the rehearsal, if you don't want to), but you are part of the house party, as is everyone in the clan, so I'm excited to see ya'll there. Belly rubs, and see you soon!